I teach Grade 8 (13-14 years old) in Ontario, Canada. I am gay, and my students have known this for about a month or so. I am in my first year of teaching, and I teach the class that is considered the "tough" class – they don't get along well with some of their other teachers, and they can be rowdy. Not so much for me, though.

In particular, I have one group of boys that can be a bit of a pain in the neck. Never keep their hands to themselves, always talk out of turn, have gotten in fights, etc. There is one boy in this group (he will be known here as Harry) who is a little quieter than the others, but very popular. He's a bit tough to get close to, and seems like the type to be resistant to new ideas and different people. He hangs out with another tough kid (let's call him Mark), who is loud and boisterous and often rude.

Now that it's so close to the end of the year, I do a "YouTube of the Day" with them every morning. Kids can send in a short YouTube video for me to show to the class, I preview it, and if it's appropriate, I play it. So this morning, Harry comes up to me and says, "I have a video I want to play."

Now, I preview things for a reason. There are enough horror stories out there of teachers accidentally showing their kids porn for me to be very careful what I show my class. So I tell him to send it to me because, y'know, them's the rules.

"I really want to show it," he says back. "You'll like it, I promise. It's a music video."