He really gets it.
Even though Chandler was a guy, mostly he was a teenage girl.
He had the same fears we had when our crushes didn't like us...
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...dealt with those fears by saying this to himself:
And after that dumb science test and what Jenna said in the bathroom, it was just like...
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